Hey everyone!
Happy Corpus Christi!
Hubby and I were lucky to be off for this public holiday and anyone who works in the Healthcare service knows what a wonderful coincidence this can be, akin to the stars being aligned!!
So on this rainy Thursday morning I turned in bed to get some early morning cuddles ( please comment if you agree that these are the best) only to see my hubby wide awake and ready to get out of bed. Uugghhh.
So we got up and was greeted by my mom who gladly announced that they are giving away free soil and planting pots in the savannah!!
Now Ronnie and I were not very enthusiastic about this news as we don't have a green thumb but more likely an orange thumb from eating nacho tortillas ! In addition to this the only thing I have successfully grown are boobs and maybe that red bean plant in primary school.
nevertheless, my dad bundled us into the car and exclaimed LET'S GO!
We arrive at the savannah a few minutes later and there is noone in sight! We have been duped! We have been tricked!!
We still asked around to make sure the 'free-ness' was not in another location.
Mildly disappointed about our trek we joked in the car that my mom just said that to get our three lazy bums out of the house! HMMM😒
Alas, empty handed we decided to drive down the main road and after finding a plant shop we went in and bought some shadon beni and chive seedlings. At the pant shop i could not help remember the love fern from the movie how to lose a guy in 10 days. I am definately calling this our love shandon beni! lol
Armed with some YouTube knowledge from my dad, we potted the plants and was feeling very proud of ourselves!
That entire day the possibilities of these 3 potted seasoning plants exploded in my mind.
Will they grow?
How fast will they grow?
Can we plant more?
How sustainable is this?
How.much can I reduce my food bill?
If some nacho tortillas get on them will they still grow?
These questions ran through my mind and made us very excited!
The next day the idea of sustainability was still ever present but this time I realized that most of these questions could be asked about marriage.
How can we sustain our marriage?
How do we keep our love as fresh and exciting as it is now?
How fast will our family grow?
How much will this increase my bills?
If I get nacho tortilla chips on the kids will they still grow?
My mind raced a mile a minute! I suddenly became aware of my fast heart rate and I could feel a little tightness in my chest. As I tried to calm down from my self made anxiety attack, my hubby walked into the room and flashed those perfectly positioned, pearly white smile at me and everything just melted away. I was still aware of my heart rate but this time I could hear his name with every beat .
I then realised that although we can't predict the future, we have been through soo much already that I was worrying needlessly.
We have survived 2 job changes, a postgraduate medical specialization program, a thesis, 2 wedding postponements and of course , a PANDEMIC!
For all of those out there that are wondering the same questions or are at the point in marriage where things are a little mundane, just remember that all we can do is choose to keep loving and committing to your partner. The chips will always fall where they should!
A picture of us at a work party. I was a tiny bit upset with him because we were super late, but he's cute so i forgave him
If anyone has any marriage advice feel free to comment below.
Happy Corpus Christi!
Hubby and I were lucky to be off for this public holiday and anyone who works in the Healthcare service knows what a wonderful coincidence this can be, akin to the stars being aligned!!
So on this rainy Thursday morning I turned in bed to get some early morning cuddles ( please comment if you agree that these are the best) only to see my hubby wide awake and ready to get out of bed. Uugghhh.
So we got up and was greeted by my mom who gladly announced that they are giving away free soil and planting pots in the savannah!!
Now Ronnie and I were not very enthusiastic about this news as we don't have a green thumb but more likely an orange thumb from eating nacho tortillas ! In addition to this the only thing I have successfully grown are boobs and maybe that red bean plant in primary school.
nevertheless, my dad bundled us into the car and exclaimed LET'S GO!
We arrive at the savannah a few minutes later and there is noone in sight! We have been duped! We have been tricked!!
We still asked around to make sure the 'free-ness' was not in another location.
Mildly disappointed about our trek we joked in the car that my mom just said that to get our three lazy bums out of the house! HMMM😒
Alas, empty handed we decided to drive down the main road and after finding a plant shop we went in and bought some shadon beni and chive seedlings. At the pant shop i could not help remember the love fern from the movie how to lose a guy in 10 days. I am definately calling this our love shandon beni! lol
Armed with some YouTube knowledge from my dad, we potted the plants and was feeling very proud of ourselves!
That entire day the possibilities of these 3 potted seasoning plants exploded in my mind.
Will they grow?
How fast will they grow?
Can we plant more?
How sustainable is this?
How.much can I reduce my food bill?
If some nacho tortillas get on them will they still grow?
These questions ran through my mind and made us very excited!
The next day the idea of sustainability was still ever present but this time I realized that most of these questions could be asked about marriage.
How can we sustain our marriage?
How do we keep our love as fresh and exciting as it is now?
How fast will our family grow?
How much will this increase my bills?
If I get nacho tortilla chips on the kids will they still grow?
My mind raced a mile a minute! I suddenly became aware of my fast heart rate and I could feel a little tightness in my chest. As I tried to calm down from my self made anxiety attack, my hubby walked into the room and flashed those perfectly positioned, pearly white smile at me and everything just melted away. I was still aware of my heart rate but this time I could hear his name with every beat .
I then realised that although we can't predict the future, we have been through soo much already that I was worrying needlessly.
We have survived 2 job changes, a postgraduate medical specialization program, a thesis, 2 wedding postponements and of course , a PANDEMIC!
For all of those out there that are wondering the same questions or are at the point in marriage where things are a little mundane, just remember that all we can do is choose to keep loving and committing to your partner. The chips will always fall where they should!
If anyone has any marriage advice feel free to comment below.
I love that movie especially the part with the love fern.
ReplyDeleteMe too!! We must be friends somehow. Lol
DeleteOh yeah memories from that movie thanks guys
DeleteI'm a doctor and I know the struggle is real. Yay for you both being off on a public holiday together!!
ReplyDeleteIt must be challenging managing schedules for both of you
Yuh understand? Thanks for your comment
DeleteSounds like a very earnest and heartfelt post. You guys are the best!
ReplyDeleteCute picture. You don't seem like you were upset with him. Anyway one must always forgive. Do not hold what may weigh on your heart what you can release and feel as light as day. Don't mean to sound so profound because I love the quirky humor of your blog. I'm excited for the next post.
ReplyDeleteJob changes, career specialization, thesis and postponements are a lot! I had a similar situation changing jobs and residence during my wedding time as well. I know how challenging that situation is
ReplyDeleteOh yes early morning cuddles are the best! Lovely post. It was really enjoyable and fun. Glad you guys can do so much together. Bonding, bonding, bonding. Staying committed, showing understanding and appreciation, laughing loads together and simply being present are terrific for Marriage. Its tough but fun! Really can't wait for the next post
ReplyDeleteAww you're my inspiration here thank you
DeleteBlessings to you both and the successful growth of the local seasoning, shandon beni. When you do your 1st picking make some curry duck and paratha again and invite me over
ReplyDeleteWhat up "how to lose a guy in ten days" reference
ReplyDelete*superwoman voice* @lilysingh
These are some serious questions with astute thinking
ReplyDeleteCute work party picture
ReplyDeleteI find so too!
DeleteYou and your Nacho chips eh Kamlaa
ReplyDeleteLol woi dun know
DeleteLol at free pots for planting in the savannah
ReplyDeleteVery well done and a delight to read!!!
ReplyDeleteCongrats to you both and the struggle was real- postgraduate, thesis,2 wedding postponed and then the pandemic.
ReplyDeleteYou both were made for each other and I wish you all a great married life!