Living together you learn the quirkiest parts of each other's personalities, as well as the strangest behavioural tendencies. Growing weird together, or should I say the admission to be weird together, is a pleasantly surprising and fullfilling process; much more than people are willing to admit, I wager. The beautiful part about this for us is not having to hide or have any reservations about our most uncanny eccentricities. One feels as free as a bird soaring in the sky when they discover the one meant for each other.
My OCD tendencies are one of my traits that i'd generally try to hide from persons who don't know me. I mean, who on a first date would be okay with showing their guest how many times you have to check for your wallet, phone and keys right? These can sometimes be quite manifest, yet oddly enough with my wife it never was a concern for me at any point during our relationship. As a matter of fact, she now mischievously harasses me whenever she sees it in any form by making it worse. For example, how i like to have my books organised precisely like ducks in a row, she'd make sure to put at least a couple out of line just because. Somehow, we both end up laughing about it afterwards.
I haven't quite figured out how to exact my revenge yet, other than sitting in her spot on the couch and on the bed without moving just as she is about to sit there . You can try this at home to learn how not moving could be way me energy intensive than you can imagine. Any suggestions of other things I can do are most welcome. My wife loves doing cute things like cuddling and the such like, and every time my brother in law sees us he'd give us that look we all know like "what the heck is wrong with you guys." (Big-up to the 'Real' Janesh... (running inside joke.) In stark contrast, anytime my sisters see us they're always like "ya'l are so cute.. (blows bubblegum voice)." Men, we may be winning some battles, but we are definitely losing the war; we need to stick together!
My OCD tendencies are one of my traits that i'd generally try to hide from persons who don't know me. I mean, who on a first date would be okay with showing their guest how many times you have to check for your wallet, phone and keys right? These can sometimes be quite manifest, yet oddly enough with my wife it never was a concern for me at any point during our relationship. As a matter of fact, she now mischievously harasses me whenever she sees it in any form by making it worse. For example, how i like to have my books organised precisely like ducks in a row, she'd make sure to put at least a couple out of line just because. Somehow, we both end up laughing about it afterwards.
I haven't quite figured out how to exact my revenge yet, other than sitting in her spot on the couch and on the bed without moving just as she is about to sit there . You can try this at home to learn how not moving could be way me energy intensive than you can imagine. Any suggestions of other things I can do are most welcome. My wife loves doing cute things like cuddling and the such like, and every time my brother in law sees us he'd give us that look we all know like "what the heck is wrong with you guys." (Big-up to the 'Real' Janesh... (running inside joke.) In stark contrast, anytime my sisters see us they're always like "ya'l are so cute.. (blows bubblegum voice)." Men, we may be winning some battles, but we are definitely losing the war; we need to stick together!
Yup OCD is an annoying habit especially if you are not and your better half likes his shoes in a straight line or his belts with the buckles in the same direction. I would casually pass by and rearrange them all.
ReplyDeleteHe would almost cry!
So yes , I agree with wifey, spend that minute rearrange them all and its indeed the best well spent minute! Bahh...haaa.haaa.
Lol you ma'am are evill
DeleteMen are definitely losing the war lol
ReplyDeleteTell me something that I don't know
DeleteKnowing and loving one another's quirks is really true love
ReplyDeleteWhen you find the one meant for you it definitely feels like soaring!
ReplyDeleteYes you get itt thanks
DeleteYou can bet your wife will keep your ducks in a row. Mine definitely does
ReplyDeleteDucks, chickens, turtles, you name it!
DeleteThere is no revenge to be had men!
ReplyDeleteYou're tempting fate taking that spot on the couch good sir!
ReplyDeleteOCD or not. It doesn't hurt to be organized!
ReplyDeleteThese days there are memes about checking for your wallet, phone and keys before you leave the house. Except the memes of today includes the face mask always being forgotten. What a time we are living in 2020. It's great to see that people can still make good things happen during such times. Congratulations you both deserve it. Keep reaching for the stars Ronnie and Kamlaa
ReplyDeleteThe more things you can laugh about as a couple carries your relationship a long way. Trust me I know, having 30 years marriage experience. Congrats!
ReplyDeleteSounds like fun! What about farting and leaving...hehe. OCD not so bad, it's quite cute! Maybe hide one of hair brushes or hair ties away for a bit! Great post!
ReplyDeleteLol you do that too? Thought we were the only ones!
DeleteLol you guys are lighting up the comments
DeleteCuddling my husband after work is the best
ReplyDeleteIt's the best thank you
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